The challenge here is about stepping up and being the rational one in a sea of confusion and emotion. It’s about not getting derailed by keeping your eyes on the goal.

Bob Taibbi, L.C.S.W., author

3 common conversation derailers:


1. Arguing over facts

2. Arguing over whose reality is right

3. Confusing means and ends

Tips to getting back on track:

Set a clear, concrete goal for the conversation

Stay on the road

Expect some push-back

Keep moving forward